Because he's not used to having any kind of feelings, man. Like, at all, apparently. Which - yeah, is pretty weird. He also thinks you're going to be hurt, by being with him. The age gap and - I have no idea what else.
No idea when I became your guys' couples therapist, anyway.
And just to tell you, "I love you," is not an easy thing to say. With my ex -- it was difficult to tell him and even then I don't know if I...knew then. I mean, we aren't together for a reason...and that's not helpful to you.
He told me about that, and I didn't believe him. If you knew him in person, you'd think the same. He feels affection, pride, annoyance, anger, lust...I didn't know what to expect from him, if anything when I told him.
I'm sorry.
I feel...oddly relieved, like I was hiding it from myself, and when I told him, the weight came off my shoulders.
I'm not saying he chooses to. I'm saying...that's how he was, somehow. He could have denied all feelings, met you, and then felt them all at once. It's overwhelming is what it is.
What's that supposed to mean. He sighs, shaking his head. He has an ability?
I'm starting to think there should be a club. Seriously, like, a league. And cool. Interesting. I - well, I can do that, and I'm psychic and telekinetic.
It's not easy for him - for a lot of people. That's all I'm trying to say. You told him...yesterday, right? Well - he never mentioned that. Not that he should have - or would have...but he didn't.
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He loves you, ya' know.
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No idea when I became your guys' couples therapist, anyway.
And just to tell you, "I love you," is not an easy thing to say. With my ex -- it was difficult to tell him and even then I don't know if I...knew then. I mean, we aren't together for a reason...and that's not helpful to you.
How do you feel, though?
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I'm sorry.
I feel...oddly relieved, like I was hiding it from myself, and when I told him, the weight came off my shoulders.
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It's not your fault.
Well, there you go. You love the guy and you told him. He just has to sort out his feelings.
I'm Ford, by the way.
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He sighs.
There's a lot out there you don't -- dude.
<Let's start with I'm telepathic.>
He shrugs.
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Join the club. I control plantlife.
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I'm starting to think there should be a club. Seriously, like, a league. And cool. Interesting. I - well, I can do that, and I'm psychic and telekinetic.
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Did he say it back t'ya?
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I'm sure he'll come 'round.