Well, Sam at the time wanted you to live the life you have now. No matter what anyone else thought about it. Maybe someone shoulda' told you, but.. in some way we all thought it was for the best. We'll mostly everyone. [She shrugs.]

[Briefly, Jo's jaw tightens and she lets her gaze wander anywhere, but Dean.] Yeah, maybe you do love her and maybe you are the closest thing to a dad Ben has, but.. if you truly love her and want to protect them, you'll leave. How long do you think it'll take before something comes and you're not there, you're out playing family man at your 9-5 job? Soon, everyone and everything will know about Lisa and Ben and then you're screwed.