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[alexa_bond_carter]

Men...that about covers it, ladies.

Comments

[call_me_klaus]

Bitter? Party of one? Your table is ready.

[alexa_bond_carter]

I suppose that is what passes for charm with you?

And I am not bitter. Merely making an observation.

[witchfactor]

Oi, we gay guys also gets our fair share of awful men.

[magnet_girl]

But they sometimes have nice lips and arms.
It's a problem.

[alexa_bond_carter]

Awful men, cruel men, lovely men...it all seems to end up the same way.

[alexa_bond_carter]

Yes, my last husband had those. But nice lips lie and nice arms leave. Then you get to clean up the mess.

[magnet_girl]

The 'problem' part.

[alexa_bond_carter]

*sigh* Yes. But...as they say...life goes on.

[witchfactor]

Sometimes it feels like it's better to be alone.

[alexa_bond_carter]

Sometimes...yes. But I have been married a few times, and they all taught me lessons, and I did love two of them, very much. I remain friends with two. So perhaps the fault is in me, in some ways, I am not sure.

Being alone doesn't have to mean being lonely. I think lust is better than love, for now, at least.

[witchfactor]

Never been married myself. Had relationships sure but one way or another things went sour. Can't trust a guy I've learned. Easier being single.

[alexa_bond_carter]

I agree. My most recent ex was bi...bisexual, bimarital, bialcoholic, bitruthful...I think that translates into two faced.

[witchfactor]

Lost of bees in there. [A faint smile.] Sorry though. I expected jealousy to be the most difficult part in that sort of union.

[alexa_bond_carter]

Mark had...issues. I spent years trying to fix them, or somehow soothe him. But some damage is too deep for anyone to fix. I will say I never had any jealousy, not in that marriage. Maybe it was because he was bi?

Anyway...enough about him. Life goes on.

[witchfactor]

Well. Good thing there wasn't any jealousy at least. Even if everything else was dysfunctional.

[alexa_bond_carter]

Jealousy is a waste of energy. I wanted him to be happy, and I didn't mind his being with guys.

Dysfunction would require effort. After a while, he just got...done.

[witchfactor]

Few women are as understanding.

Love comes and goes I suppose. Expecting someone to stay might be too much.

[alexa_bond_carter]

We were an unusual couple.

I would not have expected it, had he not promised it.

[witchfactor]

Promises can be broken.

[alexa_bond_carter]

Apparently forever isn't quite what it used to be...

[witchfactor]

Forever is a very long time...