http://mischief-shadow.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] mischief-shadow.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] sixwordstories2008-08-04 11:57 pm

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How'd you go about dating again?

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Wait until you meet the right person, the one who makes you realize that being alone isn't as freeing and satisfying as you once thought.

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, maybe the right thing now is to ask yourself if there's anyone in your life you do want a relationship with.

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
A bar, a club, the park...library, music shop? Favorite cafe, a bakery...friends of friends? I think you can meet people just about anywhere.

It does take time, though, to make the sort of connection you seem to be looking for. Relationships don't transpire over night in my experience.

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Starting over can be challenging but it's also a chance to be who you want and to decide what type of people to surround yourself with.

Make the most of it.

I think you should find what makes you happy instead of looking for a person to give you happiness. You might end up meeting someone wonderful when you least expect it. I know I did.

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't want to pry, so don't feel forced to answer, but what happened that made you think you have to give everything up?

Leaving things behind should be a choice, not something that's forced.

[identity profile] sand-andwater.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I...oh...well, that is to say...um...I can see how that might be trying.

Still, I think there are people who would be willing to accept you for who you are and overlook what you are. After all, you didn't choose this, it just is.

[identity profile] followedhimdown.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
It just...happened.

[identity profile] followedhimdown.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Is it going badly or not going at all?

[identity profile] followedhimdown.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
That doesn't reflect on you. Before this, my last date was 1997, and I was prepared for it to be a damn sight longer.

[identity profile] followedhimdown.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Some people don't. Or at least don't show them.

[identity profile] followedhimdown.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I've never really romantically loved much of anybody, so no.

[identity profile] followedhimdown.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I would imagine. But if you don't believe in yourself, you're not going to get anyone else to believe in you.

[identity profile] followedhimdown.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Give it time. It'll happen.

It happens in strange places.

[identity profile] badbobbybarnes.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Dating? What's that?

[identity profile] blush-invisible.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sure you know what it is.

[identity profile] badbobbybarnes.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Mmmm. Nah. I'm all for skipping the expensive dinner and getting right down to knocking boots.

[identity profile] badbobbybarnes.livejournal.com 2008-08-05 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
Not so much modern as expedient, really. Who's got time for dating?


*grins* Besides, I'm married. Dating don't go over so well then.

[identity profile] badbobbybarnes.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
*smirks* Honey, I'm serious. I don't date. I fuck. Totally different thing. And the husband would get seriously bent at me if I started dating now.

[identity profile] badbobbybarnes.livejournal.com 2008-08-05 05:23 am (UTC)(link)
*laughs* Nah. He won't. He knows every time I do it, I know every time he does it.

[identity profile] skindeep-smile.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
First one to the bomb-proof shelter wins?

[identity profile] skindeep-smile.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Werewolf? Very 80's. I like it.

[identity profile] skindeep-smile.livejournal.com 2008-08-04 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Or you could cut the chit chat and make with the silver bullet. Just a thought.

[identity profile] skindeep-smile.livejournal.com 2008-08-05 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
Then what does it take to kill a werewolf?

[identity profile] skindeep-smile.livejournal.com 2008-08-05 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Well, why not? Do I look like the kinda guy who goes around hunting werewolves? *shakes head, wrinkling nose* No. I've got bigger fish to fry.