She had.. a breakdown.. when we thought my father died. He was gone five years, and she's just.. started coming back alive. Then this happens and I have to ruin everything..
I'm glad to hear that your father did well. That helps. My parents.. Well. It's one of those "they did the best they could" things here too. Neither.. Well. Neither of them probably should have ever been parents, but they did a pretty good job.
Please. Explain to me how having to break this news doesn't make the one ruining everything.
He struggled with... certain aspects of parenting, but he did all right. I think he wanted me to do make up for all his mistakes in a way, which can be hard to deal with. I'm glad your parents did a good job.
It makes you the messenger. The bearer of bad tidings. But you can't be blamed for things that happened prior to your being born, Duela.
Parenting is always a struggle, from what I understand. I'm glad he did what seems to be at least a decent job.
Yeeah. Ever heard the "Shoot the messenger" approach? That's the kind of.. er.. personality my dad has. "Shoot the messenger" THEN "shoot the person(s) responsible for the message."
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She doing okay?
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Alright.
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A little bit of respite's nice once in a while.
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That would be classified as bad news.
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Good luck.
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..Thank you.
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It's been a long time since I've heard her laugh.
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She had.. a breakdown.. when we thought my father died. He was gone five years, and she's just.. started coming back alive. Then this happens and I have to ruin everything..
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I think you can't look at it like you're the one ruining anything. This other man is the one who ought to be held responsible.
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I have to break the news, so... I feel like I'm the one ruining everything.
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I know you do, but honestly you're not.
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Please. Explain to me how having to break this news doesn't make the one ruining everything.
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It makes you the messenger. The bearer of bad tidings. But you can't be blamed for things that happened prior to your being born, Duela.
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Yeeah. Ever heard the "Shoot the messenger" approach? That's the kind of.. er.. personality my dad has. "Shoot the messenger" THEN "shoot the person(s) responsible for the message."
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What about waiting for this bad man to tell him?
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